Cruising toilet gay


Cruising

This blog was written by our Sexual Health Outreach Worker, Chris Dunbar.

Sometimes, having sex in the safe confines of your bedroom just doesn’t cut it. You may be looking for somewhere new, seeking thrill or adventure, or just not be qualified to have the sex you want within your four walls. You may have heard someone talk about cruising, or include been asked if you crave to go, but what does it actually mean?

Let’s have a look together at what it means, the laws, and general safety if you do choose to give it a go.

 

Definition

Cruising is walking or driving about certain areas, called cruising grounds, looking for a sexual partner. These meetings are usually one-off, anonymous encounters.

Cottaging is a term used to describe anonymous sex meetings in public toilets.

 

Where undertake the terms come from?

Cruising: The word originated as a gay slang term, sometime in the early s, as a way for people who knew its meaning to arrange sexual meetings. It was a way to plan sexual encounters without attracting the attention of people who may wish to report t

Of the places queer people possess transformed into sites to cruise for sex—from parks like the Central Park Ramble and Berlin’s Tiergarten, to sanctums like Provincetown’s Dick Dock and Fire Island’sMeat Rack—few have impacted the queer psyche like the public restroom.

“Mischief in public toilets left more traces in vice squad logbooks than in high literature,” photographer Marc Martin writes in the introduction to his new exhibition at Berlin’s Schwules* Museum, Fenster Zum Klo [Window to the Toilet]: Public Toilets, Intimate Affairs. (Full disclosure: I’m a Schwules* employee in the curation and exhibition department.) And while many modern queers would rather forget this chapter of their people&#;s sordid past, public restrooms are undeniably places where community and connection were kindled among us against unlikely odds. “These public toilets, whose history is intertwined with the lives and adventures of many gays, trans people, escorts, libertines, are also unlikely bastions of freedom,” Martin writes.

Martin has spent years collecting tens of thousands of historic objec

How did toilet cruising work?
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I was reading an gay travel guide from , and it reminded me that I've never understood the mechanics of the toilet pick-up. One of the notable features of the guide is that among all the bars and bathhouses listed, many locations also suggest cruising toilets. This seems soinherently sketchy. How would you know when it was safe to signal to somebody? Don't you race the constant risk of an embarrassing and dangerous confrontation? Carry out you actually have sex in the bathroom, or is a rendezvous point? And given that these locations are so skillfully established that they appear in a travel guide, wouldn't they be easy pickings for the police?


Any info or stories about etiquette and risk mitigation would be of interest.

Bonus points if you can explain how toilet cruising worked in an international context. After a strong warning about how dangerous cruising is in the Middle East, for example, the guide lists toilets in Syria and Kuwait. There are similar listings throughout the world. While cruising in the U.S.

Public bathroom gay cruising: Exploring the dynamics and culture of general bathroom cruising

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