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Older LGBTQ+ adults share their stories of coming out after 50
From a year-old man finding the courage to come out to a former Baptist preacher revealing his authentic identity at 53, journalist Charles M. Blow uncovered the touching stories of everyday Americans who are embracing their true selves later in life.
Bestselling author and former New York Times columnist Blow, who came out as bisexual at 40, made this decision after he became a public figure. He revealed his sexual orientation in his memoir "Fire Shut Up in my Bones," which is about his life growing up in Louisiana.
"Late to the Party: Coming Out Later in Life," airing Friday, June 6, at 8 p.m. ET on ABC and streaming the next time on Hulu, follows Blow as he explores the experiences of older adults who have enter out as LGBTQ+ later in life.
At book signings, people thanked him for his courage and told him they also came out in their 50s or older. Blow realized that it's a phenomenon that needed to be explored and discussed more to help reduce stigma and shame.
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“Onethingthing the gay rights movement taught the world is the importance of being visible,” New York Times Op-Ed columnist Charles Blow said, discussing his riveting and frank new memoir, Fire Place Up in My Bones, in which, among many other things, he reveals that he bisexual.
“And one thing I wanted to do,” he continued, “was just be visible because very often the people who we see, the names we comprehend of people who say they are bisexual, they are already in a relationship, or married, or now they can verb, ‘Oh yes, I’m bisexual, although I’m married to whomever I am right now.’ Or people who said that, ’In my 20s I was bisexual and I’m not anymore.’ So people who were kind of transitory in that identity. But I wanted to say that, this is as permanent for me as it gets. I’m not 14, I’m not I’m 44 years old. This is how I felt all my life. It does not feel to me in any way transitory. it does not feel enjoy it’s going to change. And I also wanted to tell that there are people who may not fit what we conceive bisexuality to be.”
Blow describes throughout the book his fight
By Ilyse Kramer
Charles M. Blow, who writes a visual Op-Ed column for The New York Times, came out as bisexual in his recently published memoir, Fire Shut Up in My Bones. Another personal truth that he reveals, and is careful to distinguish has not caused his bisexuality, is that he is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse at the hands of his cousin.
In his interview on Fresh Air, Blow stated:
“What the data shows us indisputably is that people who will later identify as LGBT have disproportionate rates of having been victims of child sexual abuse. So there are two ways to think of that — one of which I completely disagree with and one I consent more with. On the one end, the abuse is making these young people LGBT. The science for that is completely flimsy. I completely disagree with that idea.
On the other side &#; children who will eventually identify as LGBT are more likely to be targets of sexual predators. If you reflect of it that way, it changes our concept of how we need to nurture and care for children who are different&#;.
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&#;When you are not living an honest, open, true life, you are taking advantage of a privilege granted to you by older, gay, lesbian, queer people who have sacrificed tremendously.”
The language of being &#;out&#; or &#;out of the closet&#; has evolved into something broad and imprecise — something that looks and feels different for everybody. When Charles M. Blow was married to his ex-wife, she knew he was bisexual. And after their marriage ended, he dated men and women, so while he didn&#;t publicly talk about his sexuality until when his memoir, Fire Shut Up in My Bones, came out, describing him as having been &#;in the closet&#; isn&#;t fully accurate.
Few of us have to contend with the added layer of having to come out publicly. For Blow, it became a necessity when he started writing a column for The Modern York Times in &#;In that very first moment, I knew what that meant, that I was now a public figure,&#; he says. &#;I knew that from a life in newspapers, that if you tell your own story, it belongs to you. If somebody else tells your story, it belongs to them. And t