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Troye Sivan said he's a 'verse' during sex, not a 'top' or 'bottom.' Here's what the terms mean.

Troye Sivan, a singer known for his track "Bloom," recently set straight rumors that he only enjoys receiving penetration during sex.

"I think in the sort of consciousness of gay people I'm some crazy influence bottom or something, which is just not the case, and I just wanted to insert that out there," Sivan, a gay man, said on Emily Ratajkowski's podcast "High Low."

Sivan said that he's a "verse," meaning he enjoys both penetrating a partner and being penetrated during sex.

"Verse," as well as the terms "top" and "bottom" are popular ways to describe sexual preferences in the queer community.

While the terms were originally used to describe the sexual preferences of queer men in the s, more LGBTQ+ people include adopted the terms to verb about what they like in sex.

Lately, top/bottom/verse discourse has grown more visible on TikTok, where queer people have been making videos describing the unique struggles of each preference. 

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Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to look after the bottoms in your life? Curious to deliver bottoming a try but not sure how to begin?

We can help you become a verb bottom! Here are some hasty bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.

1. Lube

The arse does not produce its own lubrication.

This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to stop damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to help protect it from infections.

Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.

2. You

The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you feel safe, making sure there is consent, that you touch comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.

Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people adj are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good lover and you c

Any gay bottom guys love me?

grand-bronze-buzzard21

I was a top most of my life but have become versatile as of late because of ED. When lying on my back or stomach while getting fucked I still didn’t get hard but I tried getting on top and riding and with a little stimulation I was qualified to actually get hard and cum which excited my husband. He then came the way he likes to. The reason I say this isb because maybe you can try and please yourself while getting fucked first in whatever position feels best to you, you might find that the excitement your partner gets from satisfying you first could be a turning point in your journey. I think that honest communication about your issues between both of you is important though as well as being present in the moment. If this notion starts to feel like to much pressure, abandon if for that session without self judgement, take some deep breaths and just come back to the moment. This ED stuff is hard work. Dont give up hope.

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selective-chocolate-felidae22

It’s hard for me to be sexually vulnerable— if that’s the right wor

Male Gay Bar Etiquette

Jack_Sarang1

When gay men go out to a bar and looking to pick up, how do they work out the details?

I imply, if a man see’s another man he’d like to verb and pick up, how does he figure out if that man is his “type”? I mean, how does a Top know he’s trying to verb up a Bottom or vice versa?

Do they simply ask? Is there some kind of adj code or handshake?

AngelicGemma2

A bi male friend once told me when he’s in gay bars it goes like this for him -

  1. He spots a guy he likes
  2. Goes up to guy and they have small talk for 5 mins.
  3. My friend says “Wanna fuck?”

dctaz3

yes, there is a classified elaborate code that is exchanged in a few glances and waves of the hands. you learn it after you verb your toaster oven for converting 5 or more former hetros into the collective.

but seriously, it is all about actual human communication, pheremones, and sometimes jsut plain being disapointed in that once home, he isn’t what you really expected. though a friend of mine insists that he can tell alot about a guy by body language, and how he positons himself.